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Draft of a Letter to My Congressional Representatives

Things we should NEVER have to say to any one of our elected representatives:

    • Lying is wrong
    • Cheating is wrong
    • Stealing is wrong
    • Betraying those who elected you is wrong
    • Betraying those who elected you for the sake of your own personal enrichment is just downright disgusting
    • Encouraging your peers to obstruct justice—not covertly, but publicly and blatantly—is not just wrong, …[MORE]

An Open Letter to Laura Ingraham and Those to Whom She Was Speaking

It’s really not hard. The way we learn about the world is to examine it with our minds.

If you live in a whites-only gated neighborhood, attend a whites-only church, send your kids to a whites-only private school and shop in a whites-only gourmet supermarket, it should be no surprise that to you the world looks mostly white. What is …[MORE]

A Delightful Thought

I came across a lovely image the other day. I’m reading Umberto Eco’s The Name of the Rose, a tale of a medieval monk and his young apprentice. The apprentice narrates how he once thought of books as separate and individual things, each distinct from the others. Then he discovered that some books contained parts of others; grew out of others; …[MORE]

Birdworld

I don’t know much about birds, but I watch them a lot because I find their behaviors fascinating. A few days ago, I witnessed a bird drama play out at length while I filled my gas tank.

On the ground around the gas tanks, someone had spilled a bag of some sort of cheesy poof chips. Some were intact, some trod …[MORE]

The Little Questions of Life

In a moment of wool-gathering, I picked up a pen and notepad and wrote down four questions. I’m going to keep them around for a while. I think they will make good koans.

    What do you want?
    What are you doing to get it?
    What is the next thing you need to change?
    What’s holding you back?

Culinary Rambling

I love cooking, and retirement has afforded me the time and energy to do a lot more cooking for myself than I did when I worked full time.

Cooking for one is a discipline, though, especially when that One is loathe to eat the same dish too many times in the same week. I take care to cook …[MORE]

In Memoriam

My father died last week. He had been battling cancer off and on for the last several years. His decline in recent months had been evident, so his passing was no surprise to anyone. Still, it’s one of those things you just can’t fully prepare for.

When my mother called to tell me he had been placed in hospice care, …[MORE]

The Divide

Both being creatures of habit, my dog and I always walk the same path on our morning perambulation. Since we almost never deviate from our route, I can say with certainty that a particular tree branch has been on a certain property line for a few months now.

The two adjacent houses both use a lawn service; both have …[MORE]

Radio Silence

I haven’t disappeared, but I’ve been called away on family business. I may not have the time or focus to write here for a few days.

Don’t give me up. I’ll be back.

People Like Us Do Things Like This

Marketer extraordinaire Seth Godin describes “tribes” as groups that develop a persona, along with a set of words, actions and symbols that convey the message: “People like us do things like this.” Whether it’s the charities you support, the iPhone you carry or the television programs you watch, these symbols signal your alignment with one tribe or another.

A classic tribal example …[MORE]